THE SELF-MASTERY TOOLKIT SERIES

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Tolerance of AMBIGUITY

THE SELF-MASTERY TOOLKIT SERIES

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Tolerance of AMBIGUITY

THE SELF-MASTERY TOOLKIT SERIES

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Tolerance of AMBIGUITY

Let’s face it, hearing the word “ambiguity” does not give one a warm, fuzzy feeling.

People generally do not like ambiguous situations because dealing with the unknown is well, uncomfortable. It’s hard to welcome change or accept ambiguous situations when you don’t have all the facts.

Some individuals can navigate these situations just fine, while others perceive them as threatening and respond with avoidance behaviors (denial, ignoring the situation, getting overwhelmed by stress, etc…). This is particularly true for those who prefer things a certain way, see things in black and white or as good or bad only, prefer the familiar over the unknown, or who generally do not like change.

It’s important to note that intolerance to ambiguity is completely normal. How we deal with ambiguity is largely based on our past experiences and our ability to trust. We can increase our tolerance for ambiguity by changing how we view these situations, which will help us become more adaptable to change. But first, let’s look how ambiguity originates.

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Simply stated, ambiguity stems from new situations, complex situations, or contradicting situations. In these circumstances, there are multiple, complex, or contradicting factors to consider in order to arrive at a resolution.

These types of circumstances can make anyone feel unsure of their decision- making skills and the best approach needed to resolve the issue.

So, what can we do to improve our response to these situations?

First, we need to remove the perception that ambiguity is a threat. We can navigate around the unknown by utilizing something we all possess – our intuition. If you’re not familiar with it, it’s your sixth sense or that instinct that often guides you toward knowing something is right. Intuition is a scientifically recognized skill, so trust in this inner-voice that’s providing you clues.

Other things we can do to help develop our tolerance for ambiguity:

Take your time. Don’t allow yourself to be rushed by today’s fast-paced world. Practice mindfulness by staying in the present moment. Anxiety is often caused by our inability to stay in the present moment and by ineffective communication. Most of the things we worry about never come to fruition (thankfully). Mindfulness is a valuable tool in regulating emotions, which actually take up a great deal of resources during pressing times.

Try to learn more about the situation at hand. Look at things from all angles. Request more information and do a risk assessment of the pros and cons of each path. Share your scenario with others and request their input. The more information you gather, the clearer your decision will become.

Simplify distractions and practice self-care by focusing only on the important things. Try to break down the situation into small action steps, ignoring the components that do not matter. Create time away from the problem to ensure you’re getting adequate downtime.​

Trust in yourself, step out of your comfort zone, let go, and move on. Realize that all you can do is make the best decision with the information you have at the time.

Remember, ambiguity and change are a normal part of life. Ambiguous situations, although undesirable, are navigable. It’s perfectly acceptable to temporarily relinquish control as we allow circumstances to take shape. It’s also normal for life to feel messy sometimes.

We’re all a work in progress.

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